Personal Projects
Have you ever wondered why you’re drawn to certain activities or goals or why you feel a deep sense of fulfillment when you achieve something, even if it’s a small task? Brian Little, a renowned psychologist, has explored these questions through his concept of personal projects.
Personal projects are the activities we engage in daily – from simple tasks like cleaning the house to complex endeavors like starting a business or learning a new language. According to Brian, these projects are not just random actions; they are a reflection of our personality, values, and aspirations.
Why Personal Projects Matter
Self-Expression: Each personal project serves as a way to express different aspects of ourselves. For example, someone passionate about cooking might see it not just as a chore but as a creative outlet that reflects their love for food and connecting with others.
Goal Pursuit: Personal projects are also how we pursue our goals, whether they are related to career advancement, personal development, relationships, or hobbies. They give structure and meaning to our daily lives.
Adaptability: Our choice of personal projects can change over time as we grow and experience new things. They allow us to adapt to challenges and explore new opportunities for personal growth.
Our identity is intricately linked to the personal projects we undertake. For instance, someone who values environmental conservation might engage in projects like recycling or promoting sustainability in their community. Personal Projects reinforce our values and contribute to a sense of purpose and identity.
How to Identify Your Personal Projects
Reflect on Your Activities: Think about the tasks and activities that bring you joy or a sense of accomplishment. These are likely your personal projects.
Consider Your Values: What principles or beliefs do you uphold? Your personal projects should align with these values to feel meaningful.
Look at different areas in your life: Friends and Family; Significant Other; Personal Growth; Health; Career; Finances; Fun and Leisure, Home Environment.
Understanding Brian Little’s concept of personal projects can empower you to live a more meaningful life. By recognizing the significance of the things you do on a regular basis, you can align your actions more closely with what’s important to you and pursue goals that genuinely resonate with you.
In essence, personal projects are not just what we do—they are who we are becoming. Embrace them, nurture them, and let them guide you towards a more fulfilling life journey.
Reflection: What have I accomplished that is deeply meaningful? What have I learned from pursuing this project? What is something I want to try in the near future that has been calling me to try?
Action: Identify a significant action (personal project) you’ve been thinking about trying and take one small step that will help you get started.
Tool: Project Dumping Tool